True Happiness - The Beauty in Pain.

I love this song. ^_^... oh well. ill be ranting about happiness and the beauty in pain in this post.its 2:30 am and im still alive.whew.

What is happiness?I read an interesting post(gemini encounter) answering this question. She compared it to a billion-dollar diamond that is given to you as a child. as you grow old you get tired of this diamond. you found more colorful and bigger shiny objects and decided to throw away this diamond.only to realize its importance and value when it is already gone. So you go on pursuit of this billion-dollar diamond... and that is what she refers to as true happiness.When you finally found the billion-dollar diamond you actually achieve happiness and look at that diamondin a totally different way...It is like having second chances.like being given a new life.its like being reborn again.

I admire her brilliance actually for coming up with such analogy to compare the reality of things and how we seek happiness when we already lost it.

Yes Gabby, you are very brilliant indeed.and stop telling yourself you are not. ^_^

But I realized a question after reading the post...indeed that moment of finding your lost billion-dollar diamond is very rewarding and truly a big sign of happiness and change...I ask the question...What if...What if you cant or werent able to find your long lost billion-dollar diamond?What would become of you?Would you be forever sad?Would you forever be left in misery? Here goes the great part...I realized something more... There is no assurance of finding what is already lost.

True Happiness happens or materializes the moment you realized what you have lost and took pursuit of this happiness again...But when all else fails...Misery is not the option...rather it is the act of acknowledeging the fact that "YOU" once had a billion-dollar Diamond that became a very important part of your life. This billion-dollar diamond would be in other people's hand now...atleast,Other people would be able to experience or appreciate the happiness of having a billion-dollar diamond.

difficult.but needed.Life doesnt end when your happy.When you have actually self-actualized yourself.The act of becoming a beacon of light and hope to others should become your next priority. The world dont owe us anything.rather we owe the world everything.True happiness is when the happiness you realized is channeled to others as well.

it boils down to being optimistic actually.The defense mechanism of sublimation can atest to the fact that it is indeed possible. We should be afraid of pain.hell.war.or all this negative stuff. There is beauty in pain. Recognition of happiness happens when pain surfaces and the urge to be happy is awakened. The admiration and goal to go or experience heaven is felt when we are in hell. The ultimate goal of war is Peace.Negativity kills...so smile...it helps...trust me...